The Bible says: “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” (Proverbs 22:6). My dad studied foreign languages at the University of Iowa and then served in the Air Force as a translator during the Korean War. In our eyes as his children, he was truly filled with the joie de vivre. On his one day off each week (Wednesday), he would rise early and begin work on his many “projects” around the house. When I wasn’t in school, I would shadow him as he taught me how to use tools and to do easy maintenance on cars and lawnmowers, light carpentry and home repair. He had plenty of stress from his work at a large department store, but he channeled it into positive energy as a “man for others”. He would often have one beer in the evening to relax. (His beer of choice was Texas Pride at $1.99 per six pack – only slightly more stimulating than water.) Each summer he would take the entire family camping in which many nights we would all sleep together in a big canvas tent. Many fathers go fishing with their son. It’s less about catching fish, but more about spending time alone together, sometimes in silence as the boy gathers his thoughts and asks important questions. Jesus never had a plan for what the perfect society would look like.Instead, Jesus gave us a process, a way of listening, a way of emptying ourselves so that we might be filled by God’s spirit. He tells this parable about the seeds scattered on the land. The farmer is only involved in the sowing of the seed and in the final harvest. But the growth of the seed is God’s work. It is mysterious and not something caused by human effort. As I write this, today is Father’s Day. A father’s privilege is to be the sower of seeds in the lives of his children. He sows the seeds of self-confidence, of kindness, of gentleness, and of faith in God, the Father of Jesus. That’s all he has to do. God will do the rest of the work. Mostly by their actions, fathers shape how their children see the world. As kids mature into adults, they make their own choices about what to do with their lives, how to treat others, and how to understand their relationship to God. But their fathers have helped lay the foundation for those decisions. Thank you, Daddy, for all the big and little things. Happy Father’s Day! – — Fr. Jim



